Therapy Specializing in Relationships, Breakups, & Trauma

Attachment-Based EMDR Therapy

in Long Beach, CA and Online in California

Welcome! I'm Nicole

Have you ever felt like your relationships are a constant source of pain rather than comfort?

Deep sadness and fear often linger in the background, despite your efforts.

The conflict in your relationships seems only to go away when you avoid relationships altogether, avoid dating, or avoid bringing up how you truly feel.

Whether it’s difficulty trusting, fears of rejection, or feeling like you’re never fully understood and can’t be yourself.

But change is possible!

If you’re tired of the pain that comes with your relationships, let’s discover what’s keeping you stuck and help you create the healthy, loving & peaceful connections you deserve.

Many of my clients have tried traditional talk therapy in the past but found it didn’t lead to meaningful, lasting change. Want to know why…

You might not realize it, but there’s a part of you—deep beneath the surface—that’s always making an appearance.

It’s the part of you that has been hurt in the past.

These past experiences, beliefs, and emotions are always there, shaping how you see yourself, how you connect with others, and how you respond to life’s challenges.

But here’s the good news

Once you begin to understand them compassionately-these parts of you that hold the hurt, you can start to heal and feel

safe

loved

empowered

connected

& understood

Just how you want to feel too!

Meet Nicole

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and EMDR Therapist in Long Beach, California

Specialties:

Strengthening & Healing Relationships

If your relationships keep hitting the same frustrating wall, let’s untangle those patterns so you can connect without feeling like you just gave an emotional TED Talk.

Processing & Finding Confidence After a Breakup

Breakups can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—one minute fine, the next crying in your car—let’s process the heartbreak and rebuild your confidence (without stalking their socials).

Working Through Difficult Trauma (So It Stops Sneaking into the Present)

Trauma has a way of crashing the party uninvited—together, we’ll process it so it stops controlling your present.

Helping Women Feel Confident in Managing Their Annoying Depression

Depression is like that one friend who overstays their welcome—let’s build real strategies so you can feel like you again.

This isn’t about quick fixes- it’s about deep lasting change.

Start feeling more confident, connected in your relationships, and having more compassion for yourself in all aspects of life!

My Specialties

Services Offered

  • Schedule a Free 15 Minute Consultation Call

    START HERE!

    No pressure, free, exploratory call to find out if I am a good fit for you. Then we will Schedule your Intake Appointment

  • 50 Minute Individual Therapy Session

    First appointment and followup sessions usually occur weekly. Later can be transitioned to biweekly, or monthly (for established clients)

  • 30 Minute Individual Therapy Session

    After you’ve had your initial appointment, I offer a more affordable opportunity to get support.

Your journey to emotional healing and fulfilling relationships starts here—schedule a call today!

Reach out.

1. First schedule a call with me. We will talk about what you are hoping to get out of therapy, give you space to express concerns, ask questions, and explore to see if I am a good fit to work with you.

Schedule Your Intake.

2. You can choose to schedule your first appointment with me during our call or if you decide you need some time, you can reach out by email. You will then receive a “welcome email”, with all the details you need to feel prepared for your first session.

Work Together.

3. We'll work together to set goals and craft a roadmap for Therapy, outlining the steps we'll take together to help you thrive and grow.

Who I Work With

Emotional Processing, Relationship Focused Therapy, and Trauma Therapy

  • Deeply Hurt & confused after a Breakup

  • Singles Stuck in same cycles dating and getting nowhere meaningful

  • Relationship Trauma Causing you to have a hard time trusting, opening up, moving forward

  • Anxiety with Relationships/Dating fears of being abandoned or being alone

  • Recurrent Relationship Problems with Partners & Family

  • Women with Sexual Trauma

  • Childhood Wounds getting in the way of your happiness

  • A Dark Cloud that seems to follow you everywhere

  • Lingering Grief and resentment from the past

  • Parents Wanting to feel connected and know how to help their children thrive

  • Family Problems that continue to get ignored or feel unresolved

  • Anyone in Couples Therapy wanting to do their part to heal what’s coming up creating issues or insecurities in the relationship

  • Difficulty Opening Up and being vulnerable with Loved Ones

Why Work With Me

  • Fully Present in Every Session

  • Helping you gain the insight you are looking for

  • 12+ Years of Specialized Experience

  • Professional, Consistent, and On Time

  • Open-Minded, and Nonjudgmental

  • Commited to continuous professional development through consultation/trainings

  • Direct, Yet Gentle and Will Go at Your Pace

  • Keeping You Focused on Your Goals

  • Burnout-Free Care

  • Open to Your Feedback

  • Comfort and Empowerment Are My Goals

  • No topic is off-limits or too overwhelming to share

Schedule Your Free Initial Consultation

The purpose of the call is to answer any questions, as well as to see if I am a good fit to work with you in meeting your therapy goals. If you are feeling nervous, that is totally normal! Check out my blog to help get more info about the 1st call.

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